Well, the summer has officially come to an end, actually awhile ago, and Autumn seems to be fighting off winter unsuccessfully here in the North. Mrs G and I are headed up to the family cabin one last time this coming weekend with lows in the low 30's and highs barely hitting 40. I love the cabin and love to spend time up there however during the Fall and Winter months the number of activities that can be done up there is very limited. Sure, I can always go do work around there which I love to do however Mrs G can only read so many books and watch so many movies. (As seen in a recent post, we don't see many movies.)
Anyway, Mrs G has graciously agreed to head up there with me. My folks and my brother's family will be there also. We're hoping for decent weather however we're working on coming up with ideas for time indoors as it could be nasty. We're thinking of board games, maybe some cooking etc. Movies are another idea.
So, why did I write this post? Basically to thank my lovely Wife for going up Nort' (as we say up here.) I know it's not her favorite thing to do this time of year but I appreciate it!
Love,
Mr. G
Showing posts with label proposal. Show all posts
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Tuesday, October 22, 2013
Monday, July 22, 2013
The Big Question
Now that Mrs. G and I are married we were just waiting for the BIG QUESTION to start banging on our door. The big question is of course, when are we going to start having kids???? I even thought that someone in one of their speeches at the reception would bring it up. Unfortunately, I was rather militant about this and even remember saying to Mrs. G (when she was Ms. S) prior to the wedding "I'm going to bepissed if someone brings that up. It's none of their business!"
To be honest, I thought it would come from Mrs. G's mother for sure. This will be her first grandchild while my parents already have 3 and since I'm the baby, I think they're more than fine waiting a bit. Maybe it's a been there done that attitude. For instance, I remember dropping my older brothers off at college and my folks being emotional. When it was my turn, I got a hug and a smile and a "talk to ya later." (Maybe they were happy to be childless for the first time in over 23 years.) Not that they wouldn't be excited for a new baby. They'd be ecstatic. Anyway, I got sidetracked.
Mrs. G's mother has not said much at all. And if at all, more curiosity than anything. Again, not that she wouldn't be excited but I haven't really heard boo. My folks haven't said a word. (Now I'm back on that topic. Maybe that's a subject for my therapist if I had one.) There's been a few inquiries from siblings but that's about it.
My biggest surprise is that my guy friends have inquired about it consistently. Most of my friends have children and I think are excited. Maybe the thinking is that we can hang out more if I have kids also. (Don't get to see them much.) I do have one friend who is single and is very picky about his ladies meaning he's always single. He was the first to inquire and he has a few times since. This is a friend of mine who I go and watch football with and drink beer. Not family planning or future plans! I saw a male former co worker of mine the other day who in passing asked me how I was. I enthusiastically told him I got married and pointed to my ring. (I've noticed my go to move is holding up my hand and pointing to my ring.) He said to me right away "You need to start having kids right away, don't wait."
I guess my point of this whole post is that I am shocked by who is inquiring. My thoughts were family members would be asking......nay, hounding us about having kids. But the truth is, it's my guy friends who are interested. Which is actually flattering and touching. It's nice to see them encouraging etc. Maybe it's because it's something we can share and talk about. Or maybe, it gives us an excuse to get together on play dates and drink beer. Either way, it's a good thing.
And to answer the big question........none ya bizness.
Mr. G
To be honest, I thought it would come from Mrs. G's mother for sure. This will be her first grandchild while my parents already have 3 and since I'm the baby, I think they're more than fine waiting a bit. Maybe it's a been there done that attitude. For instance, I remember dropping my older brothers off at college and my folks being emotional. When it was my turn, I got a hug and a smile and a "talk to ya later." (Maybe they were happy to be childless for the first time in over 23 years.) Not that they wouldn't be excited for a new baby. They'd be ecstatic. Anyway, I got sidetracked.
Mrs. G's mother has not said much at all. And if at all, more curiosity than anything. Again, not that she wouldn't be excited but I haven't really heard boo. My folks haven't said a word. (Now I'm back on that topic. Maybe that's a subject for my therapist if I had one.) There's been a few inquiries from siblings but that's about it.
My biggest surprise is that my guy friends have inquired about it consistently. Most of my friends have children and I think are excited. Maybe the thinking is that we can hang out more if I have kids also. (Don't get to see them much.) I do have one friend who is single and is very picky about his ladies meaning he's always single. He was the first to inquire and he has a few times since. This is a friend of mine who I go and watch football with and drink beer. Not family planning or future plans! I saw a male former co worker of mine the other day who in passing asked me how I was. I enthusiastically told him I got married and pointed to my ring. (I've noticed my go to move is holding up my hand and pointing to my ring.) He said to me right away "You need to start having kids right away, don't wait."
I guess my point of this whole post is that I am shocked by who is inquiring. My thoughts were family members would be asking......nay, hounding us about having kids. But the truth is, it's my guy friends who are interested. Which is actually flattering and touching. It's nice to see them encouraging etc. Maybe it's because it's something we can share and talk about. Or maybe, it gives us an excuse to get together on play dates and drink beer. Either way, it's a good thing.
And to answer the big question........none ya bizness.
Mr. G
Friday, July 19, 2013
Ring Shopping
Believe it or not, shopping for a ring that not only will your bride where forever, there's the added stress of whether or not you picked the right style etc. I have trouble picking out clothes in the morning so picking out a ring was a daunting task.
As it turns out, my engagement saga starts out with me going to purchase the ring. I was fortunate enough to be gifted my Grandma's solitaire which was near perfect. I took a long lunch from work to go pick out the ring. Mrs. G and I had looked at rings before on several occasions and had basically decided on a style however when I saw her future ring I knew it was the one! Two weeks later I was picking it up. No one ever tells you that buying a ring is a nerve wracking ordeal. I remember paying for it and my hands were shaking and I was sweating. The lady handed me the bag and receipt and said "thanks and good luck." I stood there perplexed with a dumb smile on my face. I think I was only there for seconds and didn't say anything. Very awkward.
I walked through the mall with my bag in hand very covertly nearing the exit still quite shaken and sweaty. A whole range of emotions were going through my head. Excitement, nerves, excitement for the future and also joy about how the beautiful the ring turned out. (I still am quite proud of it to this day.) I just knew I had to get out of the mall and back to my car and back to work! All of a sudden I hear my name yelled! Did I hear that correctly?? Someone's yelling my name. It was my college roommate and good friend who was at Big Bowl waiting for his computer to be fixed. He asked me "whatcha doing here?" Well, I showed him the bag and took out the ring and said "you tell me." His reply, "Sweating a bit, are ya?"
Now, that evening my family and my future bride's family were going to a social event. Plus, I had to go pick up the future Mrs. G after work. What to do with the ring???? I can't have it kicking around in the back seat. Someone had told me to put it underneath the spare tire in the trunk. Panicked, I did it. Soooo, unbeknownst to my future bride, her engagement ring was underneath the spare. Other than getting a flat tire, I figured it was a safe hiding spot. That evening a whole crew of people were in that car and we had to park it in a parking lot for the event. It made me very nervous out there and I kept trying to look out to see if was safe.
That evening getting home it was pouring rain. I didn't want to leave it in the car over night even though it was in a garage. Getting home around 10 PM, I pulled the lame excuse, I'm not sure if I closed the garage door. I zipped upstairs and put on my baggiest pair of shorts with big pockets and ran into the pouring rain. She thought I was crazy but I wasn't going to leave it out there over night! Came back in soaked and found a hiding spot for the ring until the big event.
Which is a post for another time......
Sincerely,
Mr. G
As it turns out, my engagement saga starts out with me going to purchase the ring. I was fortunate enough to be gifted my Grandma's solitaire which was near perfect. I took a long lunch from work to go pick out the ring. Mrs. G and I had looked at rings before on several occasions and had basically decided on a style however when I saw her future ring I knew it was the one! Two weeks later I was picking it up. No one ever tells you that buying a ring is a nerve wracking ordeal. I remember paying for it and my hands were shaking and I was sweating. The lady handed me the bag and receipt and said "thanks and good luck." I stood there perplexed with a dumb smile on my face. I think I was only there for seconds and didn't say anything. Very awkward.
I walked through the mall with my bag in hand very covertly nearing the exit still quite shaken and sweaty. A whole range of emotions were going through my head. Excitement, nerves, excitement for the future and also joy about how the beautiful the ring turned out. (I still am quite proud of it to this day.) I just knew I had to get out of the mall and back to my car and back to work! All of a sudden I hear my name yelled! Did I hear that correctly?? Someone's yelling my name. It was my college roommate and good friend who was at Big Bowl waiting for his computer to be fixed. He asked me "whatcha doing here?" Well, I showed him the bag and took out the ring and said "you tell me." His reply, "Sweating a bit, are ya?"
Now, that evening my family and my future bride's family were going to a social event. Plus, I had to go pick up the future Mrs. G after work. What to do with the ring???? I can't have it kicking around in the back seat. Someone had told me to put it underneath the spare tire in the trunk. Panicked, I did it. Soooo, unbeknownst to my future bride, her engagement ring was underneath the spare. Other than getting a flat tire, I figured it was a safe hiding spot. That evening a whole crew of people were in that car and we had to park it in a parking lot for the event. It made me very nervous out there and I kept trying to look out to see if was safe.
That evening getting home it was pouring rain. I didn't want to leave it in the car over night even though it was in a garage. Getting home around 10 PM, I pulled the lame excuse, I'm not sure if I closed the garage door. I zipped upstairs and put on my baggiest pair of shorts with big pockets and ran into the pouring rain. She thought I was crazy but I wasn't going to leave it out there over night! Came back in soaked and found a hiding spot for the ring until the big event.
Which is a post for another time......
Sincerely,
Mr. G
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